What is love??

Exapmle 1: I knew this girl that had thought she met her prince charming. The guy was smart,funny,and had similiar interests as her. She thought this was gonna be the relationship that lasted forever. But to her misfortune, it only lasted three months. It was a summer love, and the guy ended it saying that he needed to focus on his work. Almost 7 Months later im still hearning his name from both her, and her mother. I always wonder (Do u think the mourning of a lost relationship should last longer than the actual relationship?)

Example 2: There was this girl who lived in new york and attended college evey morning at 9am. Before she would go to school she would head over to starbucks and get herself a Grande coffee. There she spotted the man of her dreams. He seemed nice, charming, looked black (or close enough), and actually achnowledged her. 9 months later the two are in a "relationship". She sees him maybe twice a week, and cant really rememebr the last time he called her. On their dates he falls asleep or just doesnt show at all. And some of her friends spotted him holding hands with another girl (which he denies of course). Its the end of the school year, and the girl is moving from her dorm at school into an apatment shes renting with a friend nearby in the city. Instead of asking her boyfriend to help her move, she asks a random guy from down the hall. When asked why she didnt ask her boyfriend she replies "it would be awkward to ask him". So my question is: (Why does love make u blind?)

I try to understand why the people in the examples above would endure so much pain. Then i remember how much the power of love has over someone. Then i understand because i kow what it feels like to love someone and not imagine a life without them.

Even though i have to go four months without seeing joanna, i know that everything will be fine. I look at some of the other relationships that i have obseved around me and im glad i have somene i can tust and depend on as much as i can with jo. yeah ive only gone two weeks without her and i already feel like im going crazy. I try to keep busy and do stuff to occupy my time, but i always feel like there is a part of me missing. Even though i feel like this, im glad. I now i found someone special whom im willing to spend my life with, so i guess i can handle few months.